The dragonfly has the ability to see far more beyond human visual capabilities in different spectrums, so able to see lots of things that we can’t. So like the dragonfly, as I am able to see things in another “spectrum” so to speak, I see a lot of things that others, especially other relationship experts miss. 

I looked around and realised that all the relationship advice being spouted around were essentially useless and doesn’t work over the long run.